Your perfect match

I believe everyone should have someday they can just click with. Not just that person that is fun to hang out with, but that person that you can do anything around them and not be embarrassed, that person that would never do anything to harm you. Unfortunately for me this person just happens to be a state away. Her name is Becca. To me she is more than a friend, and more than my cousin. She is somebody I can tell anything and everything, and she never judges me. And the same goes for her, she can tell me anything, and I will always be on her side. Without someone in your life like this I would imagine it would be a lot of less quality of life. When I am feeling down I know I have someone that cares, I couldn’t imagine living without that feeling of someone needing me, and me needing someone too.

Support is a very important thing people need. What is life without people caring about what you do and what you have been up to? Without support you are destine to fail because you have no one to see your accomplishments, thus no reason to keep accomplishing.

Everyone should also have people in their life that they never get tired of being around. For a lot of people that their family. Yeah at times they may get extremely annoying, but when they are gone you miss them so much. That’s how you know these people are worth your time, when you love them even for their imperfections and they love you for yours too.

Another good thing to have in a good relationship with someone is when they are happy when you are. If they are always putting you down and making you feel anything but happy then they are also not worth your time. Of course with every relations ship, weather it is your sister, cousin, boyfriend or girlfriend there is the occasional argument. But if they truly care about you in the end they would never want to do anything to make you feel anything but happiness.

Another indication of a good relationship is when they can tell how you are feeling without you even having to say anything, of course they won’t be able to read your mind but if they are really paying attention to you then they will know that you are not feeling the best if your shoulders shrug or your feeling cheerful if you are humming.

Communication is key in any relationship. If your friend is not willing to communicate with you, especially if you have a problem about something they are doing that may be upsetting you then they are also not the best people to be hanging out with. If they are really there for you then they will take your thoughts into consideration. I think the main thing that splits up a relationship is no quality communication. If something wells up bad feelings about a person for too long then excessive anger can erupt and they may go crazy on a person and mixed feelings will begin. But if things are talked about right away then there should not be anything to worry about. (540)

Danni N.